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AVOID PEOPLE WHO HAVE THESE 5 TRAITS

By Sunshine Dacudao / August 2, 2021
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WHY WE SHOULD AVOID PEOPLE WHO HAVE THESE TRAITS

In our lifetime, we meet different people who can either bring us joy, be with us through thick or thin or teach us the hardest lessons to be learned. A relationship with a person starts once you allow him/her to be part of your life  or if and when you guys have no choice because you are related to each other.

But it is your call how much information you will let him know about you.

We all have our various experiences when it comes to dealing with other people. Good and bad, we carry these experiences throughout our lives bringing with it the lessons it has taught us. I have met people who have shared wonderful, happy memories with me at the same time I also learned from those who gave me the hard push.

 

TREAT PEOPLE THE WAY THEY TREAT YOU

Personally, I treat people the way they treat me. If kindness and love  are given to me, I give that back and I will forever remember that. But if someone is rude and  indifferent, I just smile and then decide not to give them a space in my life. Why are there mean people in the first place?

So, I thought of writing down some traits I personally think we should avoid in people to further protect us from being hurt. I hope these will help you assess too, what to allow and not to in your life.

 

  1. UNGRATEFUL PEOPLE

There are those whom we have given so much, whom we have shared so much with but later on we just learn that so much isn’t enough for them. Gratitude is power. When you are grateful, it bounces back. When you are not appreciative and ungrateful towards those who have helped you, it shows the kind of character you have.

Be grateful.

  1. SCHEMING PEEPS

A little scary than plastic ones and backstabbers but they are just the same–all scary! So beware. Scheming people are hard to detect, it’ll take an experience or something else for you to discover that he / she is a scheming person.  Scheming means he/she appears to be really good upfront but is thinking/doing something evil behind your back.  Yes, like a chameleon, they change in color. Beware.

  1. NEGATIVE ELEMENTS

When you hang around with someone who’s negative in many ways, no matter how positive your aura is and no matter how much you want to initiate a positive relationship to grow–sad to say it won’t happen.

Because negative people have strong energies that will drag you down even if you are good to them, they always think they are better than you. So, stop and do your own thing.

  1. PLAY VICTIMS

When someone hurts, offends or does something unpleasing to you and he’d make it appear that he is the one you hurt-then he is playing victim. What an actor can this person be, tsk tsk.

  1. USER-FRIENDLY

The most common trait to avoid. These are peeps who just come to you when they need something, they  just talk to you at their convenient time and you can’t ask them a favor but they can always run to you for theirs. How’s that?

 

 

So there. Actually these are just some of the negative traits of people we should avoid. I know a lot of you would say why I only listed 5? Because so far, these are the ones I know, are the most commonly complained when we talk about  what traits we should observe and avoid in people. If you can’t avoid, just be careful.